Random Acts of Kindness

Random acts of kindnessWe’ve all heard the term, “Random Acts of Violence”.  It’s on the news nearly nightly.  A few years ago I came across an article in the newspaper about how different our world would be if we started reporting “Random Acts of Kindness” instead and even more importantly, if we focused on doing random acts of kindness to other people.   Today I was the recipient of an act of kindness and it brought that old newspaper article back into my mind.  And even though it was a simple gesture, it made my day.

I got up early today so I could run and do some major, MAJOR grocery shopping while my husband was still home with the kids.  Since we’ve been on Spring Break for the past week and have been traveling and out of town, our house shelves were bare.   I cleaned out everything in the fridge before we left so I wouldn’t have old food to deal with when we got back.

So, I’ll admit that I was one of “those” people who spends hours or more in the store loading up the cart to nearly overflowing so that I won’t have to go shopping again for awhile.  I was one of “those” people who really should have made a couple of trips to the car but was determined to fit everything in to one cart.   But I’m also one of “those” people who other people don’t like to stand behind in line at a store. [Read more...]

Finding the Mother in Me

Finding the Mother in MeI remember the day as if it were yesterday.  I was terrified, confused, terrified, anxious, terrified, overwhelmed, terrified, exhausted, and did I mention TERRIFIED?  I remember sitting and crying and wondering “what now?”   But wasn’t this supposed to be one of the happiest days of my life?   Why weren’t my tears actually tears of joy?   I had just brought a beautiful, perfect baby boy home from the hospital, something I had always wanted to do, so why wasn’t I excited?  I didn’t feel like a mother and I was worried that I would have a hard time finding the mother in me. [Read more...]

How You Can “Happify” Your Life

A few weeks ago I posted a Monday Motivation titled How to be Happy which was basically saying that we need to stop trying to be perfect and enjoy the life that we have, not the one we think we want and we need to stop waiting for some future date or accomplishment to allow ourselves to be happy.

Since that post I’ve had an eye-opening experience in regards to finding daily happiness.  I was invited to be a pioneer for a website called Happify.  Basically Happify is a new website based on the science behind what makes people happy. It provides daily activities that allow you to stop and focus on the things in your life that bring you happiness and it helps you to savor the daily experiences that you have and then share those with other people who are also sharing their happy moments as well.  It is so nice to not see all of the negativity that you find on other social networks.  Happify is currently invite-only but read to the bottom and I have a little gift for a few people.

How to be Happy

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Monday Motivation: Are you a Bouncer or a Splatter?

It’s that time of year again.  Everyone you know will start making “resolutions” to do things differently or to make changes in their lives or to be better than we were last year.  I know our hearts are always in the right place but let me just be honest for a minute. Most of us will fall off the wagon, so to speak, within the next few weeks or months.  It’s going to happen.  Accept it and be prepared for it.  Now, before you think this is a post about how we’re all going to fail on our New Year’s resolutions, let me just ask this questions.  When you fall off the wagon, (and it will happen) or when things don’t go as planned, will you be able to persevere? Will you become a bouncer or a splatter?

Well, what’s the difference?

A Splatter hits rock bottom, falls apart and sticks like glue.
A Bouncer hits rock bottom and bounces back. [Read more...]

Monday Motivation:How to be Happy

How to be Happy

I know, I know this is a day late.  It’s okay to have motivation on Tuesdays as well right?  I guess we were just having too much fun ringing in the new year yesterday that this didn’t get posted.  Last week I read a wonderful blog post by my beautiful cousin about how we tend to save our happiness  and how we often don’t allow ourselves to be happy until we have we reached A, B and C on our list of to do’s.  That had me thinking a lot. I recently wrote about my efforts to enjoy my Christmas more and about how to be happy when life is crazy around you and after writing that post I really tried to focus more on the little moments within my day that help me find happiness.  And it worked!  I thoroughly enjoyed the holidays this year.

Next week I’ll be teaching a workshop to the ladies from my church about not just having New Years resolutions but learning how to set real, attainable goals and the steps we need to take to reach those goals.  We all have resolutions or goals that we set this time of year but we need to remember that our happiness should never depend on whether or not we reach those goals.  We need to enjoy the journey and allow ourselves to be happy now and not just when we are 20 pounds thinner or have mastered home organization or caught up on 8 years of scrapbooking (Yes I am THAT far behind!) or when we have reached our “perfect”life.

I love this quote about how to be happy even when our life is not perfect (And I hate to break it to you but our lives will never be perfect but we can look beyond the imperfections and really learn how to be happy in spite of them).

How to be happy

Happy New Year!! I hope this year brings you happiness, love and the ability to look beyond your imperfections to realize how wonderful you really are.  And PLEASE don’t save your happiness.  You deserve to be happy now!

 

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